Are you still single? How long has it been? Can be quite scary as you think back at how long its been since you had a girlfriend and unless you shape up you will probably stay single. For guys the dating scene can be really harsh and having to be proactive can be really scary and confronting. No one likes rejection. In fact, it is the number one reason why most single guys are still single.

One of the main reasons why you are still single is because you are probably not playing the field. If you think that some super hot girl is going to come knocking on your door and ask you out, then I hate to break it to you but you are going to wait for a very long time. You have to be proactive. You have to ask girls out. Its as simple and as hard as that.

Secondly, you need a target. Just saying "I want a hot girl" is not good enough. You really need to set yourself a target of the type of girl you want. Do you want a steady girlfriend? Do you want to meet your future wife? Do you just want to have some fun? You also have to get more specific on the type of girls you like.

Lastly, you need a game plan. Once you know exactly what type of relationship you want and you know exactly what type of girl you want you need to have a game plan. If you like a fit and active girl, maybe hanging out in your local gym might be a good start. You need to start thinking about where you can meet this girl you have in mind and act on it. Its the only way. Girls will not just come to you.

Source by Deon Du Plessis